That was fun while it lasted....

I've now had two different people tell me about scares and surprise babies on VCF, so I am back to being celibate and praying I see blood in my undies very soon (although I also used spermicide, so I am sure we are OK). Only 2.5 more months of extreme paranoia, and then I can scale it back to mild paranoia--ok, moderate paranoia.  12 months PP will be mild paranoia, and 16 months PP+ will probably be kind of hoping for a baby.